tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5411343076178063698.post2981544386375065407..comments2023-04-29T05:23:03.935-07:00Comments on Not your average blog, blog.: Somewhere between postpartum and "WTF now?"Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05918787861128518958noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5411343076178063698.post-4029993577259141982012-06-27T09:03:34.679-07:002012-06-27T09:03:34.679-07:00Hard to say "Congrats to your new born son&qu...Hard to say "Congrats to your new born son" and the same time "So sorry to hear about the loss of your grandfather" ... Tough one! You wrote earlier about your grandfather and that he will die soon. Reading that made me think of my grandmother and that she died way too early (she was only 67 and my daughter was born 4 years later). You can't tell when is 'the right time' to die of course, but I guess you know what I mean.<br />So I don't really have good words for consolation. Cry if you want to cry and be happy that your grandfather was able to see his third great-grandchild, that is wonderful.<br />For a different reason that's what I'm doing at the moment: Crying, cause I'm so sad, but at the same time trying to be happy about the great time. Guess it makes it so difficult, cause those are complete opposed emotions. Happiness and sadness. Does that sound precocious? Hope not, not meant that way. Just trying to find consolating words.<br />I really don't know what to say, just can tell you in my thoughts I'm with you and usually crying is relieving. <br />Take good care of yourself and I know what you mean when you say writing things down is your kind of therapy. Agreed!<br />All the best to you from bloody cold & rainy Berlin.<br />Cheers,<br />Stefanie KellyThe Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06153583060598880635noreply@blogger.com